What is focal point of your life?

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Yesterday, my son was in tears because of some bullies on the school bus. He exclaimed, "My life is already miserable, and you don't understand me."

Feeling offended, I took a deep breath to maintain composure. "How do you feel at school, at home, at karate class? Do you feel loved and happy?" I inquired.

He began to calm down. "Things are good. I'm happy at those places. I have great friends there, and at home, I have you, Papa and my little brother," he replied.

Softening my tone further, I explained, "So, your focus isn't in the right place. You're giving attention to people who are strangers to you, about whom you know nothing, and who know nothing about you. Your focus should be on the people who bring you happiness. They should be the center of your life, not random strangers. If you make negativity the center of your life, your life will be negative. Conversely, if you make positivity the center, your life will be positive."

He agreed and promised to prioritize positivity in his life.

Reflecting on the conversation, I realized its potency and its relevance to my own life. I found that focusing on positivity is what brings me happiness. As my son works towards making his life happier and more stable, I see him getting stronger everyday. 

What's the focal point of your life?

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